Sindhi-pathano Me 2-shadi Krneka Ziada & Mahajir-punjabion Mey Na Honey K Barabar Dikhta Hey. Asa Q?

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wese kitni ajeeb bat haina muje shamil kar ke jitne log b 2 shadiyon ke fawayid o nuqsanaat and reasons bata rhe hain un main se 90% logon ki abi tk 1 shadi b nhi hoi hogi
just 1 shadi krne per to itne masle masayil rakhe hote hain yahan or just 1 shadi kisi surat ho hi nhi pati yahan or 1 se zyada shadiyon pr tabsara farmaya ja rha hai
kitni veily haina yeh @Hoorain
 

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usually kuch tribes ki conditions hoti hain k wo larki ko out of family ya out of tribe nahi day sakte.. And there is 3:10 female and male ratio isi lie un lucky/unlucky larko ko ek say zada biwi mill jati hain.. Mahajir have no such conditions so yeh bechari ek hi par guzara karte hain... Punjabi logo may bhi yahi condition hoti hai but waqt k sath sath un logo may yeh "Sakhawat" khattam hoti ja rahi hai.
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usually kuch tribes ki conditions hoti hain k wo larki ko out of family ya out of tribe nahi day sakte.. And there is 3:10 female and male ratio isi lie un lucky/unlucky larko ko ek say zada biwi mill jati hain.. Mahajir have no such conditions so yeh bechari ek hi par guzara karte hain... Punjabi logo may bhi yahi condition hoti hai but waqt k sath sath un logo may yeh "Sakhawat" khattam hoti ja rahi hai.
ap kon hain??
 

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w slaam....

ufff ye pathan ya punjabi ya sindhi honey ki baat nhi hai admi ki fitrat hi aisi hoti hai k unka dil krta pori 4 shadiyan hi kr lain...{}{3
hahahaha :dGREAT achha jawab hai ......................lekin tum to ladki ho how uknow??:p :p
 

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wese kitni ajeeb bat haina muje shamil kar ke jitne log b 2 shadiyon ke fawayid o nuqsanaat and reasons bata rhe hain un main se 90% logon ki abi tk 1 shadi b nhi hoi hogi
just 1 shadi krne per to itne masle masayil rakhe hote hain yahan or just 1 shadi kisi surat ho hi nhi pati yahan or 1 se zyada shadiyon pr tabsara farmaya ja rha hai
kitni veily haina yeh @Hoorain
hahahahahaha.....{(laugh)} yaar ghareeb insaan ziada wali batein ker k hi khush ho leytey hein.. ac baatein kerney per koi Tax tu nahi hey na.. :p
or wese b door ki sooch ker chalney ki try ker rahey hein :p



wa'alaikumusalaam wrwb..
baad mei jawab doonga..
INSHA'ALLAAH....


ap kon hain??
gud question.. :)
 
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hahahahahaha.....{(laugh)} yaar ghareeb insaan ziada wali batein ker k hi khush ho leytey hein.. ac baatein kerney per koi Tax tu nahi hey na.. :p
or wese b door ki sooch ker chalney ki try ker rahey hein :p




INSHA'ALLAAH....



gud question.. :)
dur ki sochne ki wajah se hi to insan qareeb ke amal se ruk jata hai yr hr insan agr just ek ek shadi b krle na to b yeh do do or char char shadiyon ka riwaj khtam hojai kyunke larkiyan hi na milen phir dusri shadi ke liye dusri shadi insan krta hi kyun hai just is wajah se na ke usse nihayat hi asani se larki b mil jati hai or uski razamandi b mil jati hai shadi shuda larkay se shadi karne ke liye pakistan main is waqt 1 se zyada shadiyan karne walon ki itni quantity nhi payi jati jitni quantity un larkon or larkiyon ki payi jati hai jinki umer hojane ke bawajod bhi abi tk just ek shadi b na hoi discuss karne ke liye big masla yeh nhi ke ek se zyada shadiyan ki jain ya na ki jain big masla yeh hai ke aise halaat to paida kye jain ke insan atleast ek shadi hi kar sake

or mera b kuch bhala ho sake...
 
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hahahaha :dGREAT achha jawab hai ......................lekin tum to ladki ho how uknow??:p :p
irdh girdh k admi logon sey mehsoos kiya hai k koi bhiu moqa miley tou ye zroor kehtey hai mai dosri shadi kronga{}{456
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dur ki sochne ki wajah se hi to insan qareeb ke amal se ruk jata hai yr hr insan agr just ek ek shadi b krle na to b yeh do do or char char shadiyon ka riwaj khtam hojai kyunke larkiyan hi na milen phir dusri shadi ke liye dusri shadi insan krta hi kyun hai just is wajah se na ke usse nihayat hi asani se larki b mil jati hai or uski razamandi b mil jati hai shadi shuda larkay se shadi karne ke liye pakistan main is waqt 1 se zyada shadiyan karne walon ki itni quantity nhi payi jati jitni quantity un larkon or larkiyon ki payi jati hai jinki umer hojane ke bawajod bhi abi tk just ek shadi b na hoi discuss karne ke liye big masla yeh nhi ke ek se zyada shadiyan ki jain ya na ki jain big masla yeh hai ke aise halaat to paida kye jain ke insan atleast ek shadi hi kar sake
or mera b kuch bhala ho sake...
hmmm mahool kharab honey ki waja b yahi hey... pr gal ki kami nahi ghaalib... aajkal galz ziada hein banisbat boys k... ismey ik tu government ka n 2nd parents ka b qasoor hey...
Allaah pak aap ka jald sey jald bhala karey afiat k sath...ameen
 
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jab Allah ne mardon ko haq de dia hai 4 shadion ka to phir hum is bat ko bura nhi keh sakte aur is ma hikmat bhi hai k insan gunah se bach jata hai dosre aap dekhain kitni larkian shadi ki umar ho jane k bad bhi gharon ma bethi hain unhe ksi sahib e istatat k nikah ma dia jaye jo dosri shadi krna chahta ho to ye masla bhi hal ho sakta hai
jahan tak bat hai k kin kin k culture ma riwaj zyada kuon hai to mere khayal ma pathan n sindhi culture ma shayad females zyada khule dil ki hain jo asani se apne husband k dosri wife ko accept kar leti hain to un k han mard zyada 2nd marriages karte hnge banisbat muhajir ya punjabi females k jo ksi tarha is bat ko qabool ya bardasht hi nhi krti hngi tab hi un ma mard dosri shadian kam karte hnge.
 

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dhondo gy molko molko milnay k nae,nayab hum..
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walikum asalam.
@DuFFer is ri8,najaiz kam sy behtar h k banda jaiz way ikhteyar karay.2nd panjbi nd mahajir q nae krty i dnt no.bt 2nd shadi ya 3rd shadi gunah nae h.agar tamam hoqoq jo hamaray deen ne muqarar kiye h ko folow krtay hway 2nd shadi koe mard kary to i thnk wo he behtar muslman hoga.bjae isk k ap fakhar k sat ake bv ko gar ma rakay.or 4 ko bahir.
 

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dhondo gy molko molko milnay k nae,nayab hum..
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2nd thng mosharay ma aj kal jis qadar behaye phele hve h uske waja yahe mard or urat ke fitre kashish h.jis ko jaiz nam na milnay ke waja sy hamara aj ka moshra adam tawazan ka shekar h.agar ake mard 2 shadia b kar ly to ase lakho larkia jo shdi ke omed py apnay garo ma bethe hy.unko unke manzil mil jaege.so i thnk sindi pathan waqe bahdur h jo apni khowahsh ko jaiz nam dyty h.
 

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yr gunah krne se shadi kr lena zyada behtar hai or is bat se yehi show hota hai ke pathan or sindhi phir mahajir or panjabi se zyada bahadur hote hain or pasnd ajane pr dusri shadi krne se b nhi ghabrate or islam ne jo mard ke liye 1 se zyada shadi ki ijazat rakhi hai woh mard ki fitrat or aurat ke husn ke aitebar se hi rakhi hai or bilkol jaiz hi rakhi hai aurat ko agr Allah ne husn se nawaza hai or mard ko aisi fitrat di hai ke us per aurat ka husn asar bhi kar jata hai or phir Allah ne hi mard ko 4 shadiyan tk krne ki ijazat b de di hai to in sb ko dekhte hoye phir sindhi or pathan theek hi karte hain kyunke main yeh baat nahi maan sakta ke aurat ka husn mahajir or panjabi mard hazraat per asar nahi karta hoga and asr krne ke bad impress hone ke bad woh us larki se nikah nhi krte to phir Allah hi behtar janta hai woh kya krte hain

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one of the best answer given by Fahad :) thumbs up..
 

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Walaikum salam Wrwb :)
well pahlay kafi zyada dusri shadi ka rewaj hota but ab itna nai hai.. aur phir mai Don ki baat se agree hu aur mai personally aise loug ko jante ho jho girls ki shadi serf aapnay he tribe mei kerte hai like cousins ki shadi kerte hai, out of family allow nai kerte chahe ladki k lie koi option he na ho but aapnay he tribe mei adjust kerte hai ya tu kessi shadi shuda se shadi kerwate hai ladki ki ya phir ladki ko unmarried he rakte but out of family prefer nai kerte so yeh tu ek condition hue jeska pathans se koi relation nai ye aam taur per kuch tribes mei hote hai aur dusre baat fahad ne buhut sahi kaha k pathan loug ager kessi ladki ko passand kerte hai so they even go for the 2nd marriage and thats so true, baki mai ne dekhe hai humare he kuch relatives mei aisa hua jub ek biwi se ladkio ki he paidayesh ho so unke husband ko yeh lagta hai k es biwi se koi baby boy nai melne wala so they go for the 2nd marriage and yeh hope rakte k dusre biwi se shayed unka koi waris paida ho I dont know wether its a silly excuse of getting 2nd married or they truly think k dusre biwi se baby boy k paida hone k chances hai... jub k hota yeh hai k dusre biwi se bhi ladki he paida huti hai jho k humare ek relative k saath hua.. so yeh tu Allah ka kaam hai dena chahe tu pahlay he biwi se denge nai tu ager es intention se dusre shadi kare k usse usko beta melay tu Allah waha pe bhi apna same he merzi apply kerte hai so yeh tu Allah ka merzi hai... khair so yeh kuch wajoohat hue 2nd marriage k but I think ager islam ijazat deta hai 4 shadio tuk phir tu yeh baat pathan ya punjabi ko relate nai kerne chahye balke puray muslims ko and islam mei eske ijazat hai yeh sochna chahye jeska ache se fahad ne reply diya hai i guess...
 
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irdh girdh k admi logon sey mehsoos kiya hai k koi bhiu moqa miley tou ye zroor kehtey hai mai dosri shadi kronga{}{456
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hahaha g janab :p ....kia ho ga u ne ......mazy ki bat bataon subah main ne u ko hoorain samjh k pakda tha jab reply kr dia to pata chala k ye to ......ap to husband rakhti hain na ap ko to achhy se pata ho ga :D
 

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hahahahahaha.....{(laugh)} yaar ghareeb insaan ziada wali batein ker k hi khush ho leytey hein.. ac baatein kerney per koi Tax tu nahi hey na.. :p
or wese b door ki sooch ker chalney ki try ker rahey hein :p




INSHA'ALLAAH....




gud question..
thanks ........................:)
 
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Assalaamo-3laekum warahmatullaahi wa...

sub hazraat or khawateen kese hein? bht hi important topic per discussion hone jarahi hey... kaafi jaga ye halat dekhi hey meney...bt samajh nahi arahi k is k peechey kia waja hey?
topic hey:
"Sindhi-pathano me 2-shadiyan krneka ziada & Mahajir-Punjabion mey na honey k barabar dikhta hey. asa q hey?" :D


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