what is the difference between LOVE and CRUSH

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jo crush hota hai na ye pehli nazr me hota hai bcoz jb pehli nazr me sirf khoobsoratlog hi achi lgte hain..jin ki shakal achi ho pehli nazr me woh hi dil ko bahta hai..or mere khayal me muhabbat ka taluq zaheri khoobsorati se nhi hota..esi muhabbat matlb crush waqat k sath khatam ho jati hai..
muhabbat to aahista aahista kisi wahi ki tarha dil me utarti hai..or us me shakal nhi dekhi jati...kbi b nhi..jin se hume muhabbat hoti hai woh jesa b ho humare lye dunya ka khoobsorat tareen insan hota hai..u ko pata hai qees yani majno ko lela se muhabbat ho gyi thi woh lela raat k andhere ki tarha kali siyah thi..phir b majno ko us se muhabbat thi na,,
is lye pehli nazr koi ehmiyat nhi rakhti..
 

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crush is for mean ke chahat mean kisi ko koi acha lagney lagey .. aur love ho jata hai kya nahi jata
 

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jo crush hota hai na ye pehli nazr me hota hai bcoz jb pehli nazr me sirf khoobsoratlog hi achi lgte hain..jin ki shakal achi ho pehli nazr me woh hi dil ko bahta hai..or mere khayal me muhabbat ka taluq zaheri khoobsorati se nhi hota..esi muhabbat matlb crush waqat k sath khatam ho jati hai..
muhabbat to aahista aahista kisi wahi ki tarha dil me utarti hai..or us me shakal nhi dekhi jati...kbi b nhi..jin se hume muhabbat hoti hai woh jesa b ho humare lye dunya ka khoobsorat tareen insan hota hai..u ko pata hai qees yani majno ko lela se muhabbat ho gyi thi woh lela raat k andhere ki tarha kali siyah thi..phir b majno ko us se muhabbat thi na,,
is lye pehli nazr koi ehmiyat nhi rakhti..
:eek: anuuu X_X @-)
 

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crush to kisi se bhi hojata hai, wo muhabbat ani, ye bhi such hai muhabbat sirf ek baar nai hoti, off course pehla pyar humesha yaad rehta hai, but there is no such thing like muhabbat sirf ek dafa hoti hai...

crush kisi se bhi hojata hai it depends on the personality, like kisi ka style the way of speaking, looks etc...

but love ahista ahista progress kerta hai, crush bhi lvoe me convert ho sakta hai,
but crush ager ap chor do to koi fark nai perta, per love ap choro to dunia veeran hojati hai,cuz wo dekhne me ek shaks hota hai jis se ap ko muhabbat ho, per asal me wo apki pori dunia ban gaya hota hai..... :)


mera crush MONICA BELLUCi, NAZiA HASSAN , ab ye dono to mujhse double age ki hain but crush to kis per bhi ho sakta hai... :D
like me ko apni hi ma'am se hogaya tha school me :eek:
 
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Jheel se ankho mei...
walakumsalam...
crush jo ap ko bar bar hota hai...usually first sight par hota hai jab apko koi banda bht acha aur cute lage...yah pher kuch aur...samjh hi gae hogein ap..
love hota hai...magar aik hi se hota hai...aur woh apki life partner hoti hein..dats all...
Well said PF....
agreeeeeeed....
coz mei bhi yehi sochte hon

@Desi appke aur PF k viewz almost same hai
lekin PF ne ek khass baat mention kiya k Love sirf ek baar hota hai jo bht true n real hai aur woh sirf Life partner se hota hai....

SO agreed with both viewz....:-bd
 

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Well said PF....
agreeeeeeed....
coz mei bhi yehi sochte hon

@Desi appke aur PF k viewz almost same hai
lekin PF ne ek khass baat mention kiya k Love sirf ek baar hota hai jo bht true n real hai aur woh sirf Life partner se hota hai....

SO agreed with both viewz....:-bd
sana mera ap se sawal hai ager love sirf ek bar shadi k bad hota hai to jo 2 ya 4 shadia kerte hain un k bare me apka kya khayal hai :D
 

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there is no such thing as k love ek bar hota hai...
but wo kabhi bhi ho sakta hai shadi se pehle like saleem n anar kali ;;)
ya shadi k bad like shahjahan n mumtaz ;;)

love to love hia.. :x
 

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Jheel se ankho mei...


sana mera ap se sawal hai ager love sirf ek bar shadi k bad hota hai to jo 2 ya 4 shadia kerte hain un k bare me apka kya khayal hai :D
Zaroori toh nahi har marriage Love mArriage ho duffer....
n ho sakta hai baki shadian majboori mei bhi ho...
mein sirf yeh kah rahe thi....K real LOVE marriage k baad hota hai....baki sab sirf attraction n yup Crush kah sakte hai....
 

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Jheel se ankho mei...
there is no such thing as k love ek bar hota hai...
but wo kabhi bhi ho sakta hai shadi se pehle like saleem n anar kali ;;)
ya shadi k bad like shahjahan n mumtaz ;;)

love to love hia.. :x
come on yar
unko toh compare nahi karo....
sahi hai Shadi se pahly bhi real love ho sakta hai
incase jes se love karte ho usi se shadi karo aur life partner banaoo....
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I ponder n wonder....kia jo roz apke Love badalte hai usko aap True Love kahte hai atif....:p
 
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unko toh compare nahi karo....
sahi hai Shadi se pahly bhi real love ho sakta hai
incase jes se love karte ho usi se shadi karo aur life partner banaoo....
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I ponder n wonder....kia jo roz apke Love badalte hai usko aap True Love kahte hai atif....:p



bilkul me ko pehle true love hua, wo to mila nai, n now im again in love ( secret hai ):p
per me ko is bar koi umeed nai k hum mile ya na mile, jo waqt sath guzar jae hasi khushi utna hi bht hai zindagi guzarne k lie :)

n to is tarha mene wo ek hi true love wali theory fake sabit kerdi...mene hi nai dunia me zada ter logo ne bhi...


n let me tell u one thing
k love ka maksad n manzil shadi hi hai, n jo love manzil tak na ponche due to some circumstances wo love love nai hota kya??

ye to bus wo log kehte hain jinhun ne kya hi nai hoga love :)
doob ker dekhoge to gehrai ka andaza hoga tume,
sahilo per khare reh ker samnder ki gehrai kya napte ho dost ;)
 

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Zaroori toh nahi har marriage Love mArriage ho duffer....
n ho sakta hai baki shadian majboori mei bhi ho...
mein sirf yeh kah rahe thi....K real LOVE marriage k baad hota hai....baki sab sirf attraction n yup Crush kah sakte hai....
there is no such thing as ek bar love hona...

koi koi majbori me kerta hai,
but in some case kisi ki wife ki death hogai n use kisi or se muhahbat hojae n wo us se dosri shadi kerle to?
kya phir bhi yehi kahenge pyar ek bar hota hai?to wo kya hai phir?
noo never...pyar ek bar nai hota...sweeto :p
 
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unko toh compare nahi karo....
sahi hai Shadi se pahly bhi real love ho sakta hai
incase jes se love karte ho usi se shadi karo aur life partner banaoo....
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I ponder n wonder....kia jo roz apke Love badalte hai usko aap True Love kahte hai atif....:p
n what u mean k roz badalte hain? :|
 

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Zaroori toh nahi har marriage Love mArriage ho duffer....
n ho sakta hai baki shadian majboori mei bhi ho...
mein sirf yeh kah rahe thi....K real LOVE marriage k baad hota hai....baki sab sirf attraction n yup Crush kah sakte hai....
n do u think jis ki 4 shadia hoti hain as u say majbori se lols,
to kya wo bas ek wife se pyar kerta hai?
nooo wo 4 se barabar muhabbat kerta hai cuz islam me bhi her BV ko brabar haq dene ka hukum hai...tumari ye jo love ki pholosophy hai ye fake hogai hai :p
 

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bilkul me ko pehle true love hua, w mila nai, n now im again in love ( secret hai ):p
per me ko is bar koi umeed nai k hum mile ya na mile, jo waqt sath guzar jae hasi khushi utna hi bht hai zindagi guzarne k lie :)

n to is tarha mene wo ek hi true love wali theory fake sabit kerdi...mene hi nai dunia me kitne or log hian unhun ne bhi...


n let me tell u one thing
k love ka maksad n manzil shadi hi hai, n jo love manzil tak na ponche due to some circumstances wo love love nai hota kya??

ye to bus wo log kehte hain jinhun ne kya hi nia hoa :)
doop er dekhoge to gehrai ka andaza hoga tume,
sahilo per khare reh ker samnder ki gehrai kya napte ho dost ;)
still mera wohi answer hai k True lOve shadi k baad hota hai...:D
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waise aap bhi abhi tuk sahilo mei kare ho kar gahraie ka andaza laga rahe hai
kyun k still apko bhi real Love nahi hua hai
dekhe above aap ne kaha hai k aap ne apne Real love ko bhi fake sabit kiya....
matlab time k saath insan mature hojata hai aur apne past ko fake n ignorance ka naam dete hai....
eselie mei kahte hon k INSAN sirf shadi k baad apne love n life ko Seriously lete hai....
coz Marriage k saath reponsibilites bhar jate hai....n its natural k insan ko Responsibilites ayen toh unko khud ahsas hota hai...n Improving ka sochte hai
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still mei kahonge k jo shadi se pahly jo feelings n attractions hote hai woh LOVE nahi crush hai....n thats it:|
 

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still mera wohi answer hai k True lOve shadi k baad hota hai...:D
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waise aap bhi abhi tuk sahilo mei kare ho kar gahraie ka andaza laga rahe hai
kyun k still apko bhi real Love nahi hua hai
dekhe above aap ne kaha hai k aap ne apne Real love ko bhi fake sabit kiya....
matlab time k saath insan mature hojata hai aur apne past ko fake n ignorance ka naam dete hai....
eselie mei kahte hon k INSAN sirf shadi k baad apne love n life ko Seriously lete hai....
coz Marriage k saath reponsibilites bhar jate hai....n its natural k insan ko Responsibilites ayen toh unko khud ahsas hota hai...n Improving ka sochte hai
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still mei kahonge k jo shadi se pahly jo feelings n attractions hote hai woh LOVE nahi crush hai....n thats it:|
mene to nai kakha k mera pehla ka love fake tha??
of course mera love true tha, per us me age berna namumkin tha, kyu k ek taraf mera love ta dosri taraf uska fareb...

me to kabhi bhi nai bhulunga pehle love ko, na hi wo fade hua hai,
n shadi k bad ager love sincere hota to shadio me divorce hi nai hoti :|

n my point is true n valid,
muhababt pyar ishq, shadi se pehle bhi ho sakta hai n shadi k bad bhi.
but THERE is NO SUCH THING AS ONE LOVE
lols maan lo sana :p
 
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